ready to get out of your own way?

I help changemakers turn triggers & traumas at home and work into dependable peace, warm connection, & effective action, so they manifest their visions & create a life of kindness, connection, & impact.

Turn self-sabotage into self-love & empowerment

Want to uplevel your life, love, & leadership? It starts by understanding your primary Self-Sabotage Style.

A fresh new relationship with yourself, others, & life is easier than you thought. WHATEVER UPSETS YOU HOLDS THE KEY!

Hi, I'm Shawn Mahshie, leading expert in the field of Self-Solidarity, the art and science of standing with, by, and for yourself so you feel safe, seen and supported—no matter what life brings.

As a Certified Facilitators of The Work of Byron Katie, author of The Wheel of Self-Forgiveness Workbook, and developer of the Living in Symmetry Blueprint, I love helping you turn whatever upsets you into peace & thriving, so you can experience all of life as love & happy course corrections.

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If you’re a visionary woman who still disempowers yourself when it matters most, The NO-MATTER-WHAT Way lets you swiftly transforms your triggers, traumas, regrets, and challenges into a foundation of unshakable self-love, confidence, and connection at work and home.

By harnessing the healing “SYMMETRY” in whatever hurts, angers, or scares you, you not only achieve personal and professional excellence, but also cultivate a life deeply rooted in meaning, purpose, & joy.

Learn how to capitalize on whatever is NOT working in your life as a path back to you... and to peace.

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Make the Simple Shift that Turns your Self-Sabotaging Inner Critic Into the Champion of Your Happiness!

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A Simple, Reliable Way to Move from Pain to Peace in Your Most Reactive Relationships, NO MATTER WHAT is happening

Working with Shawn Mahshie was simply amazing. I love her happiness hacks.

Shawn has the most effective, powerful technique called the “reliable symmetry of happiness” – whatever upsets you is actually the key to setting you free. Even people who have been on a lifelong spiritual journey will find the fastest path to freedom. Whether you are in a stuck marriage, have issues with your closest relationships, or still struggle with anxiety, anger, and alienation, Shawn gets radical healing results.

— Bret Gregory, Internationally-Known Business Coach

Digital Challenge Course

free the painful thoughts that hold you back

Help yourself to Happiness as you quickly spot and dismantle the 6 most disempowering thought types. (Take the quiz first to get a HUGE discount offer on this course!)

Turn Self-Sabotage into Self-Love and Thriving

The 5-DAY THOUGHT DETOX Challenge: A Digital Course!

still stuck, stymied, or stagnant after years of inner work?

Create a Fearless Win-win Aligned Life Fueled by Self-Love and Service

What Still Triggers You, after Years and even Decades of Inner Work? Those who come in the door here are highly self-aware people who give much to their families and communities, but still struggle with relationship, health, or money issues of their own… Until they get hold of The Reliable Symmetry of Happiness: The Missing PEACE We Were Never Taught. THIS CHANGES EVERYTHING!

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you’ll have a lifelong practical system to turn toxic thoughts and reactions into your personalized path to peace, connection.

The Work of Byron Katie, one of the pillars of my NO-MATTER-WHAT Way, turns around anger, blame, judgement, defensiveness, and fear. I became Certified by Byron Katie as a Facilitator of The Work in 2014.

With the two pillars of my NO-MATTER-WHAT Way—The Work & The Wheel of Self-Forgiveness—you powerfully harness what hurts to release the polarized thinking that's causing your suffering, so you can free-fall into manifesting a life you love!

With the two pillars of my NO-MATTER-WHAT Way—The Work & The Wheel of Self-Forgiveness—you powerfully harness what hurts to release the polarized thinking that ‘s causing your suffering, so you can free-fall into manifesting a life you love!

The other pillar of the NO-MATTER-WHAT Way, my Wheel of Self-Forgiveness lets you finally stop beating yourself up for good and be the hero you've been waiting for. After decades of turning on myself, this Antidote to Regret, Self-Criticism, Self-Doubt, & Indecision changed my life and has changed the lives of thousands.