Move from Inner Turmoil to Powerful

Peace

End the cycles of anxiety, anger, and overwhelm that come from turning on yourself in harsh self-criticism, putting yourself last, or feeling like a victim of others' limits & choices.

Embrace a simple brain-friendly way to live that turns your triggers and traumas into gifts of growth—so you find your voice, live your vision, & craft a life you love.

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Imagine a Fearless Way of Life,
Fueled by Self-Love

I teach changemakers HOW to break free from stress, fear, and self-abandonment by turning even their toughest challenges into a path to peace & empowered action, even when uncertainty and injustice in the world—or in your marriage—feel overwhelming.

fINALLY sTAND With, by, and for yourself...IN sELF-sOLIDARITY!

Your first step begins herE... Watch this 2-minute video (plus 1-minute overview reel) about my own story:

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Feel Safe, Seen, And Supported— No Matter What

Inner work doesn’t have to be guesswork

(And it doesn't require a lifetime of hard work either!)

As you go through our simple brain-backed process, you’ll experience a noticeable change in your desired life and relationships. Once you have a fool-proof system for getting out of your own way, there’s no telling what you can accomplish:

Tap into the natural law of symmetry to transform your most painful feelings into powerful tools for healing.

The Living-in-Symmetry Approach (LISA)

The missing PEACE we were never taught

Instead of staying stuck in frustration, burnout, or helplessness, you’ll learn a simple, reliable way to reset your thinking and transform how you relate to yourself, others, and the world.

This isn’t about ignoring what’s happening—it’s about strengthening your ability to meet it with clarity, courage, and resilience. When you stop fighting your thoughts and start working with them, you create win-win solutions, stronger relationships, and meaningful change—fueled by self-love, self-solidarity, and a deep trust in your own wisdom.

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You aren’t meant to take this journey alone

Whether it is being part of an online mastermind or retreat, or finally letting yourself be held in a deep, warm, supportive, real-time private coaching relationship, something incredible happens when we come together here in such a safe space.

Freedom from resentment

I finally got to the root of all my pain—my own thinking

"Finally, when I was able to start really questioning the thought that she should be different, she should support me, she should hear me, she should be able to acknowledge me, my pain, and how she caused it all. When I realized that just me thinking that she should be different is what was the root of that struggle, the root of that pain. Freedom from so much stress and anxiety and that feeling of disgust and hatred. It was just... gone!"

—Merry

Healing through Connection

A Safe, Productive Space

"It's not always easy to look your own self-sabotage, but we all get more freedom each time one of us works through their situation in this safe space!

My relationship with my children and grandchildren, my husband and extended family, and especially myself is SO much happier now. I no longer feel like a victim of others' choices."

—DONNA

Stop Shrinking and start living

Finally Heard, Seen, and Supported

"Shawn helped me reconnect with nature. I reclaimed physical wellness. I realize my present life, my mind, and my spirit are healed in a way I didn't think was possible. Thanks to her preparing me to confront my ex-husband about his abandonment of our grown son, he finally heard me,"

—CHRISTY

De-Clutter your Heart, Mind, & Life

"Celebration! I have just decluttered so much of my house! Shawn and the Aligned Action Adventure Mastermind have really helped me get out of my own way, sharing progress or stuck places with Shawn and she gives me just the "thought tweak" I need to finally be my own cheerleader. It is so nice to have her on the other side of that text, loving me, supporting me, & helping do that for myself!!!"

—CORRIE

Access Decisive Leadership

"I signed up for a four-month workshop, which turned into a year-long journey. Now, my husband and I work with her together, and it has been a game changer. Every time I’m with her, I gain more insight and clarity into where I’ve been stuck. The tools she’s given me have transformed my relationships, my career, and my confidence in myself.

I wish I had met her 40 years ago. She has been my angel on Earth, and I truly believe anyone and everyone would benefit from working with her. Don’t hesitate—this work is life-changing."

—liz

Hi, I'm Shawn

M.A., Internationally Published Author, Self-Love Coach, and Pioneer & Leading Expert in the Field of Self-Solidarity—the art and science of standing with, by, and for yourself.

I help overwhelmed overachieving women rewrite the script of self-sabotage into one of deep unshakable self-love so that they can make the dreams of their life a reality.

I teach you how to stop beating yourself up for good, so you can find peace, love, and connection like you’ve never experienced before

Join me in this journey of self-transformation— where your struggles become the seeds of a life you truly cherish.

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Discover how to live in symmetry with yourself, others, and life

3 Paths to Self-Empowerment for Lasting Change

From trailblazers on the home front to global change-makers, I empower visionary women with an efficient, reliable system for turning their personal challenges into a life that is rich in success, satisfaction, and impact.

Feel Connected

To yourself, your people, and your purpose

Be the Source of your Own Thriving

In The Get-YOU-Back Bootcamp, you'll learn a direct path to dependable peace & sweet "Self-Solidarity," so you can stop putting your needs last. Come home to the lost parts of YOU after the pain of past traumas, codependent relationships, and work-life stressors.

Begin Your Journey of Clarity & connectioN

find calm confidence

In yourself, your decisions, and your dreams.

Rediscover Your Unstoppable Self

The NO-MATTER-WHAT Multi-Stage Mastermind is your key to unlocking profound self-evolution, self-care, and empowered self-advocacy. Discover un-paralleled support, innovative manifestation, mentoring strategies, & a safe, fun, self-responsible cohort committed to conscious living, loving, & leadership.

Transform OLD Patterns for a Life That Works

fulfill your dreams

Craft a life you love and live your highest vision.

Create Healing, Fulfillment, & Impact

Transform your life, love, and leadership through a Shift of a Lifetime (SOAL) Private, Executive, or Couples Coaching Relationship with ME! Grounded in safety, honesty, unconditional support, and strategy between sessions, you'll experience real-time shifts via my cutting edge & intuitive strategies.

elevate Your Potential with powerful coaching

STOP GETTING IN YOUR OWN WAY

Become the source of your own happiness & peace

Recognizing the patterns that hold you back is the first step to moving forward—and it's easier than you think! Take the 5-minute quiz to discover your primary Self-Sabotage Style and turn your greatest challenges into your greatest breakthroughs.

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Stop Beating Yourself UP For Good

Overcome painful regret, guilt, and self-criticism in 3 simple steps with…

The Wheel of Self-Forgiveness

What would life feel like if you truly loved and trusted yourself? Imagine knowing, without a doubt, that you can handle whatever comes your way.

Turn even your most painful memories into radical self-love. Get Shawn' WSF Cheat sheet and be among the first to get her new BOOK!!!

Wheel of Self-Forgiveness Book and Cheatsheet

yes, I need this!

Empower Your Inner Change-Maker

Unlock the Secret to Trust in Life

Discover your path to a life of boundless energy, optimal mental and physical health, and fearless faith in the uncanny ways life steps up to support you, Embrace this opportunity to transform hardship and hurdles into powerful assets for a resilient, impactful, and self-compassionate existence.

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About Shawn

Shawn Mahshie, M.A., C.F.T.W., is an internationally published author, speaker, self-love coach, and leading expert in the field of Self-Solidarity: a sweet state of unshakable self-love and advocacy. She has helped thousands from every walk of life find peace, confidence, and unconditional thriving from her beautiful home and retreat space outside of Washington, D.C.

After becoming one of a handful worldwide of Certified Facilitators of “The Work of Byron Katie” in 2014, Shawn developed her “Wheel of Self-Forgiveness.” The two serve as pillars in her signature system, “The Living-in-Symmetry Approach”: a radical but reliable method to turn anger, anxiety, and self-criticism into self-love, connection, and empowered action.

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