become the source of your own success

Hi, I'm Shawn Mahshie, leading expert in the field of Self-Solidarity. It's the art and science of standing with, by, and for yourself so you feel safe, seen and supported—no matter what life brings—experiencing all of life as love & happy course corrections.

WIth my NO-MATTER-WHAT Way system, I teach professoinal women, counselors, and coaches in challenging work or home situations to STOP censoring, criticizing, compromising, and sabotaging themselves, and START trusting their highest vision as leaders of a life, a mission, and a world that works.

With this simple system, we quickly turn your triggers, traumas & regrets into radical self-love, confidence, personal/professional success & self-care, for a balanced life you truly love.

With a Self-Solidarity approach, you’ll have a lifelong practical system to turn toxic thoughts and reactions into your personlized path to peace, connection, and becoming the most confident, effective YOU!

A whole new relationship with yourself, others, and life is easier than you thought! WHATEVER UPSETS YOU HOLDS THE KEY

still stuck, stymied, or stagnant after years of inner work? Take the quiz or a self-paced digital course!
Make the Simple Shift that Turns your Self-Sabotaging Inner Critic Into the Champion of Your Happiness! 

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The Work: Antidote to
Anger, Blame, Judgement
& Feelings of Victimization

One very simple principle of the psyche, THE SYMMETRY PRINCIPLE, lets you USE whatever upsets you to shift yourself almost instantly into peace. 

With my the two pillars of my NO-MATTER-WHAT WayThe Work & The Wheel of Self=Forgivenessyou powerfully harness what hurts to instantly release the polarized thinking that is causing your suffering, and free-fall into manifesting a life you love!

The Wheel of Self Forgiveness:
Antidote to Regret, Self-Criticism, Self-Doubt, & Indecision

A Simple, Reliable Way to Move from Pain to Peace in Your Most Reactive Relationships, NO MATTER WHAT is happening

Digital Challenge Course

free the painful thoughts that hold you back

Help yourself to Happiness as you quickly spot and dismantle the 6 most disempowering thought types

what some clients are saying:

"I have tried nearly every spiritual practice... It wasn’t until I met Shawn and started working with her that I finally started to experience real change in my life."


"[Shawn's online event] has been totally nourishing and illuminating."


"I felt supported and loved in Shawn's events and groups like no other place in my life. I get so much out of every one!"



Practical, reliable tools to change your thinking—changing your life!

Working with Shawn Mahshie was simply amazing. I love her happiness hacks.

 Shawn has the most effective, powerful technique called the “reliable symmetry of happiness” – whatever upsets you is actually the key to setting you free. Even people who have been on a lifelong spiritual journey will find the fastest path to freedom. Whether you are in a stuck marriage, have issues with your closest relationships, or still struggle with anxiety, anger, and alienation, Shawn gets radical healing results.

— Bret Gregory, Internationally-Known Business Coach

Create a Fearless Win-win Aligned Life Fueled by Self-Love and Service

What Still Triggers You, after Years and even Decades of Inner Work? Those who come in the door here are highly self-aware people who give much to their families and communities, but still struggle with relationship, health, or money issues of their own… Until they get hold of The Reliable Symmetry of Happiness: The Missing PEACE We Were Never Taught. THIS CHANGES EVERYTHING!

could someone you know or love use a reliable path to peace?

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