UN*Conditional CONNECTION and Thriving!

Creating a Productive Partnership with Self, Others, and Life

How Do Expectations & Conditions Cut You Off? From Others? From Your Dear Self? From Happiness? From Life?

Bring Yourself Back to
UN*Conditional THRIVING.

Bring Yourself Back to LIFE! No Matter What. Feeling Better is Easier than you think.

It's NOT magic; it's Teachable. Learn the Simple Science of Living in Symmetry with Life, and in Warm Solidarity with Yourself.

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Most folks think unconditional love is not attainable for everyday humans. Even after lessening their pain with years of inner work, many still see anxiety, anger, and alienation as normal reactions to life.

Here at UN*Conditional CONNECTION, we think otherwise.

Our mission is to share news of simple "HOW" that is based on the way our brains and bodies are wired.

This inner technology is so solid and timeless that it enhances our ability to put the great spiritual teachings into action by harnessing the Symmetry inherent in any stressful situation as a perfect Path to Peace in the moment and ever-deepening Self-Evolution over time.

Come and learn how to turn around the thinking that creates separation.

Unity by the Bay invites you to join Shawn Mahshie for an eye-opening 3-week course in March that helps you use stuck patterns to evolve yourself and have lots more fun with your family.
  • Happily transform difficult relationships that have been stuck for years or decades.
  • Get clarity about what works for YOU–creating loving win-win situations for all.
  • Trust your words, actions, and decisions, even in the context of family events.
  • Learn or deepen your practice in The Work of Byron Katie and Shawn’s Happiness Hacks.

JOIN US FOR 3 Thursdays with Shawn:
Transform Your Ability to Calm Yourself and Communicate Clearly

March 12 & 19th, and 26th
7:00-9:00 PM

VALUABLE BONUSES: Join Us for All 3 Classes and Get an 1 hour Harvest Hidden Riches Session with Shawn (or come as you can and get a 30-min. personal breakthrough followup). If you ALSO attend the Ridgely Retreat workshop on Mar 21 from 1:00 pm - 4:30 pm, you get a FREE 90 min Deep Shift Session!

In these 3 weeks, Shawn introduces the universal law she has identified, and the radically simple but effective tools for accessing your own perfect path to peace and the UN*CONDITIONAL connection it reveals.

In her open accessible way, Shawn guides you through the hands-on experience of becoming the curious compassionate caretaker of the parts of you that are still under the spell of old programming, often bringing instant and lasting relief from your most stubborn pain points and tenacious survival scripts.

See for yourself the only thought that ever separates you from self, others, and life. Begin the happy journey home to deep inner advocacy–the Self-Solidarity’ Shawn reveals to be the bottom line in all spiritual quests.
If you are just SO ready for some RADICAL RELATIONSHIP RELIEF ... Then I have really HAPPY NEWS It's called THE SYMMETRY PRINCIPLE:
Whatever or Whoever Upsets, Scares, or Saddens You carries within it a UNIQUE CODE that unlocks Peace, Freedom, and Happiness, and a Warm Dependable Connection to Yourself and the very Person or Situation that Triggered You.

Start your path to freedom, forgiveness, and fun!


Shawn, this is amazing. You’re a gift. You are really good at what you do. You are so perceptive. I can’t even imagine anyone being as helpful as you’ve been. I love that all my family relationships are at peace as I'm headed into the holidays.”

—Carol Kerr, Unity Member, December 2017

With this MAJOR SHIFT in Paradigm, ‘Problems’ Look and Feel Radically Different. Suddenly relationships feel…

  • Hopeful
  • Solvable
  • Friendlier
  • and MUCH More Fun
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Understanding what I call “The Reliable Symmetry of Happiness” was–for me–the beginning of the end of fear, anger, sadness, and the hell of regret. The reason I call this a Paradigm Shift is because this ‘happy symmetry’ changed my entire relationship to life–in a very short time–and does the same for those in my Groups and Individual work.


Results you Can Expect from this Ground-Breaking Program (even thought it is just an introduction!):

1. Major Shifts in Your Relationship to Relationships and to LIFE itself:

  • Stop Waiting for your situation to change
  • Put Happiness back in your Court
  • Notice a refreshing compassion for yourself and others
  • Act in loving new ways to old familiar triggers
  • Move from Reliable Anger, Anxiety, Heaviness to Reliable Clarity, Joy, Lightness (and FUN)!
  • BE the Relationship of Your Dreams

2. Your own discovery (don’t just believe me!) that:

  • Painful issues are happening FOR you, not just TO you,
  • You don’t need the “terrible awful THEM” to change for you to be happy,
  • You no longer feel clueless about how to handle situations you used to dread.
  • Your shift from upset into peace, curiosity, fearlessness can be instantaneous.

3. A Dependable Peace and Delicious Connection via The 6 Keys:

  • Harvest Hidden Riches from Your Judgments, Annoyances, & Fear
  • Efficiently Shift Regret, Indecision, Needs, & Shoulds to their Happy Flip Side
  • Use Defensiveness, Offensiveness, and Vulnerability as Personalized Teachers of Inner Peace
  • Eradicate fear of intimidation, retaliation,’ seeing the other (and Yourself) clearly
  • Redefine Forgiveness and Amends for True Freedom
  • A WHOLE NEW WORLD: Find that a NO is Equal to (or better than) a YES

UNITY 3 Thursdays with Shawn General Overview

Thursday Evenings with Shawn Mahshie

3 comprehensive modules that include Shawn’s cutting edge teaching, facilitations in The Work of real issues, warm innovative mentoring, role plays, or Q & A about your own process. (We recommend you commit to attend all Three group meetings to get the most out of this opportunity).

Exclusive Private Sessions

Amazing! Everyone who attends even once gets a 30-minute private strategy call with Shawn. And as a special bonus for attending ALL Three group meetings, you get a 1 hour Harvest Hidden Riches session. Experience the tangible sustainable shift Shawn’s expert coaching and facilitation in The Work create around a difficult issue.

Training in Effective Strategies

Learn The 6 Keys to Dependable Peace and Warm Connection, and Shawn’s Happiness Hacks to create major shifts. Get comfortable with concepts from The Work of Byron Katie you can facilitate yourself and others.

Online Support

Get access to your a Private FB group where you can get direct support from Shawn between Thursdays for your challenges, celebrations, questions, and shifts! You will also have access to a “3 Thursdays with Shawn” online hub where you can access the resources she will be presenting during these 3 weeks.

Resources for a Deeper Dive

Get cued up to receive cutting edge articles, videos, and “Happiness Hacks” over time to help you integrate this new way of being with self, life, and others. Let Shawn’s vulnerable sharing and rich hands-on synthesis of other teachings bridge the application-gap in your spiritual journey, as you build your comfort level with The Work and The 6 Keys


Participating will get access to this self-responsible community and valuable discounts to Shawn’s waterfront retreats, Radical Relationship Relief Bootcamp, or Symmetry of Self-Love Mastermind, which increase as you share the word about what you are learning and experiencing throughout our time together and beyond.

FUN, HANDs-ON Group Sessions

Your Thursday nights with Shawn at Unity By the Bay start March 12, 2020 and run for 3 weeks through March 26, 2020 from 7:00 pm – 9:00 pm. (It is recommended you attend for all sessions, but come as you can! There will tion also be the option for partner practice as well as a free private session with Shawn)

Have questions?

Then we invite you to call Shawn at
(301) 785-0545 to decide if this program would work for you!


There is deep integrity, Shawn, in what you share ... It's palpable and permeates your words and actions. Your willingness to be both visible and vulnerable is a continual testimony of your dedication to 'walk your talk.' I also really appreciate your sense of humor that reads as kindness ... such a kind heart ❤ you have. So beautiful is The Work that you share. Thanks so much ... I value your stand and your commitment to truth, beauty and true care for us all ... it's a treasure.
Donna Drozda
Visual Artist, Virgina Beach, Virginia
I'm in. I've drunk the Reliable Symmetry of Happiness kool aid. I want to immerse myself in it, become a skilled practitioner of it in my own mind and life, and pass it on to everyone I reach through Bright Line Eating to address the monkey mind that erupts when the crutch of food is no longer a go-to option.
Susan Peirce Thompson, Ph.D.
Neuroscientist, Professor in the Psychology of Sustained Weight Loss, CEO Bright Line Eating Solutions, Rochester NY
This is soooo awesome! I feel really great right now! Thank you so much for facilitating my paradigm shift!
Author, Coach, and Blog Writer; California
Thank you for doing this group. I think The Work is awesome and its clear that you are masterful with The Work from all the feedback I’ve heard from multiple people now and I think it could benefit everyone, and I don’t say that about many things. I think that The Work is… well it’s phenomenal; it’s absolutely transformative. It doesn’t matter how enlightened you already are, you can go further with The Work. It can produce profound breakthroughs that you might not find any other way. It gets at stuff that we can very effectively avoid in the rest of our lives. The stuff we are conveniently avoiding--The Work will get at it. So Yeah, I highly recommend this. (Recommending another group—not THIS exact one).
Ryan Eliason
Internationally known marketing coach and author, The Social Entrepreneur Empowerment Network, Eugene Oregon
It is said that what we all want above all things are Love and Freedom. I advocate highly for Shawn’s ability to help guide you HOME to both! Her Commitment, Love and Skill, her Patience and Guidance, and especially her Courage are all for YOU and in service to YOUR HEALING. I love her and her work! If you’re ready to roll up your sleeves, and get to it, this is the place and Shawn is the person! I hope to see you at her next event!
Dr. Dale Korangy

I'm Ready to Get My Shift!


Shawn Neal Mahshie’s life work has facilitated critical shifts in perspective for individuals and couples, groups, schools, and even governments addressing stubborn long-term issues.

Her own rich experience emerging happily from severe co-dependence, chronic illness and pain, divorce, and food addiction–largely via her years of training under Byron Katie–means she is knows among her clients for facilitating on a deep and fearless level, with much warmth and compassion.

Shawn Neal Mahshie’s life work has facilitated critical shifts in perspective for individuals and couples, groups, schools, and even governments addressing stubborn long-term issues.

Her own rich experience emerging happily from severe co-dependence, chronic illness and pain, divorce, and food addiction–largely via her years of training under Byron Katie–means she is knows among her clients for facilitating on a deep and fearless level, with much warmth and compassion.  Quick to make connections and spot her own stories as well as those of her clients, she supports herself and others in:

  • Peace-full Happy Relationships with Self and Others;
  • Flourishing Work/Small Business/Spiritual Life; &
  • Reliably Thriving in the Face of Adversity.

A Trained Facilitator of The Work,  Paradigm Shift Coach, and Published Author/Advocate, Shawn’s latest book, The Reliable Symmetry of Happiness: The ‘Missing Peace’ We Were Never Taught, is forthcoming.  She currently gives workshops, teleseminars, retreats, and works individually with clients from around the world via Phone and Skype (and on the Byron Katie International Helpline)–as well as in-person at Light Landing, her Peaceful Waterfront Retreat on the Chesapeake Bay near Annapolis & Washington, D C.

To read more of Shawn’s story, visit her profile on Byron Katie’s website.

To receive Shawn’s writing and news of programs, or to schedule time to meet with Shawn [FREE] and learn more about The Work or her RADICAL RELATIONSHIP RELIEF Group and Individual Intensives, CLICK HERE.

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Want more information?

Then we invite you to call Shawn at (301) 785-0545 to decide if this program would work for you!