The Stressful Relationship


A practical approach with a powerful ripple effect. Transform any relationship stressor into your direct path to dependable peace and warm connection in just 2 weeks (or 2 days if you want relief sooner!)

This compact course is packed with real help for real relationships –
even in areas where you have been stuck for decades. 

Feeling better is
Easier than You think

Here's the Good News:

Whatever upsets you holds the key to your path out of that upset! The “Symmetry Principle” (the natural law of the psyche that Shawn has identified), is why the simple life-changing tools taught in this course are a reliable path to peace and freedom.

“This course helped me get almost instant relief from MAJOR relationship stressors by making it safe to dive into two big issues I was having. Shawn gave me comfort with her sweetness and empathy, and these simple tools let me find real, workable solutions. She is helping me see how to start with myself, and fill my life with so much love and light.” 

Cynthia, Homeschooler Mom of 3 boys with Dad working from home!.

A Simple, Reliable Way to Move from Pain to Peace in Your Most Reactive
Relationships, NO MATTER WHAT is happening

Get this hands-on introduction to The Work of Byron Katie, and begin your journey into Shawn Mahshie’s NO-MATTER-WHAT Way of systematically revealing and reversing the brain wiring where fear, trauma, painful patterns, or unforgiveness reside, opening a happy daily flow of UN*Conditional Connection and “Enoughness.”

What's So Different about the Stressful Relationship Solution?

By honing in on just ONE unmet need in ONE relationship, you’ll take a deep – but fun and freeing – dive into this simple “HOW” of deep yet lasting relationship freedom.


Your Mission

Your Mission, should you choose to accept it, is to systematically calm the conflict and co-dependence in your most reactive relationships–even marriage, children, the workplace. 

You will kick off this life-long journey into freedom and fun by discovering a NO-MATTER-WHAT way to HARNESS any triggering situation as a direct path to peace and self-evolution.

You will access clarity and restore connection by compassionately reversing at least one “need story” that has been creating stress and “stuckness,” despite all your inner work.

And you will learn 3 new ways of thinking about thought that release the self-sabotage standing in the way of your happiness.

Are you ready to accept this mission... and help yourself to happiness?

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“Shawn saved my marriage… in ONE session! I have tried nearly every spiritual practice… It wasn’t until I met Shawn and started working with her that I finally started to experience real change in my life.”
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“This has been totally nourishing and illuminating.”
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“Shawn’s approach to The Work of Bryon Katie is amazing. It was just the self-forgiveness piece I needed to heal so many parts of my life. I feel supported and loved like no other place in my life. After years of depression and anxiety, I finally know how to shift my own emotional state.”

Results to Expect From This Program:

Major Shifts in Relationships & LIFE:

Stop waiting for the situation to change…Take back control of your happiness.

Notice refreshing compassion for yourself and others.

Act in loving new ways to old familiar triggers. BE the Relationship of Your Dreams

Move from habitual anger, anxiety, alienation, and heaviness to reliable clarity, joy, connection, lightness, and FUN!

The Life-Changing Discovery that:

Painful issues are happening FOR you, not just TO you.

The “terrible awful THEM” doesn’t need to change for you to be happy.

You no longer feel clueless about how to handle situations that previously caused dread.

Shifting from upset into peace, curiosity, fearlessness can be instantaneous.

Begin Your Journey to Dependable Peace & Delicious Connection:

Harvest hidden riches from judgments, annoyances, & fear.

Use defensiveness, offensiveness, and vulnerability as personalized teachers of inner peace.

A WHOLE NEW WORLD: Find that a NO from others to something you need can be Equal to (or better than) a YES

This simple hands-on digital course can be worked in 2 weeks or 2 days, for significant shifts in perspective and proactive options regarding a specific troubling issue, as well as the way you experience all relationships--including the one with yourself!

Grab this opportunity to quickly transform your relationship-driven emotions & discover a truly efficient & compassionate path to greater satisfaction, synergy, & FUN

Feeling better is
Easier than You think

Short–but RICH & Life-Altering–Video Trainings

including “mining” meditations, simple self-evolving exercises, and resources that walk you through applying what you learn to future stressful situatoins.


Receive one training (plus action steps) DAILY for 2 weeks, or power through them as fast as you want!

All in a fun, interactive online course portal

Work your own simple, powerful exercises as you enjoy the example and self-evolution of those in the LIVE workshops that were the basis for this course!

Either way, you track and celebrate your progress with each simple step!

You’ll experience your own tangible, applicable shifts along with those who were live for the course creation, but getting freedom, peace, and clarity around a very specific NEED in your own stuck or stressful situation!

Plus, a HYBRID APPROACH... To be sure you get what you came for! As part of this comprehensive short course, enrollees get:

Personalized support, answers, and laser-coaching from Shawn, via ONE full small group session of SHAWN's EXCLUSIVE "UNCONDITIONAL CONNECTION LASER COACHING CLINIC" Members' Q&A

Even more support & strategy from Shawn & masterminders via Shawn's Happiness Hacks FB group and course discussion forum

Valuable discounts on retreats, courses, and the NO-MATTER-WHAT Mastermind

Plus...These Life-Changing Bonuses:

Earn your own Wheel of Self-FORGIVENESS (WSF) BONUS Package!

Stop beating yourself up for good with the 3 simple steps that have changed the lives of thousands. When you work at least half the exercises in the course, you will be sent the entire WOSL package, which includes the 8-page Wheel of Self-Love PDF, 20 minute WOSL Training Video, and Self-Guided WOSL Worksheet.

2 Tickets to an Inner Circle DEEP DIVE DAY!

This one-of-a-kind 3-day virtual event brings the transformation and breakthroughs of our intimate retreats with the excitement and energy of a full conference. Learning this MAJOR SHIFT in paradigm, life looks and feels radically different; issues shift to being hopeful, solvable, friendlier, and MUCH more fun!


Whatever or whoever brings upset, fear, or saddeness absolutely holds the key to greater peace, freedom, and happiness. This PDF and “cheat sheet” provides a model for creating warm dependable connection to yourself and the very person or situation that triggers you.

Earn a Reflection & Direction Session with Shawn!

Enjoy this 1-on-1 time where Shawn helps you get to the heart of current challenges and long-standing patterns, designing a foolproof path to greater happiness, connection, and self-solidarity will become available to you upon completion of your SRS lessons and activities.
NOTE: These bonuses alone are worth far more than the cost of the course itself!

Learn how Shawn turned her life-long hell of relationship, health, and food issues–plus a life-long theme of regret, guilt, self-doubt, and indecision–into radical self-love, confidence, clarity, unconditional connection, and vibrant health.

Turn your inner critic into the hero you’ve been seeking, as you turn your greatest challenges into your greatest breakthroughs!

Meet Shawn.

Shawn Mahshie is an internationally published author, retreat leader, spiritual mentor, and Certified Facilitator of The Work of Byron Katie, who has been called “a Master Coach of Master Coaches.” With a mission to end self-hatred, her warm, supportive and deeply insightful retreats, courses, and multi-level mastermind groups turn regret, resentment, and self-sabotage into radical self-compassion, clarity, & unconditional thriving. A pioneer in the field of Self-Solidarity, Shawn is the creator of The Wheel of Self-Love and other practical tools for compassionate self-evolution that yield a fearless win-win way of life fueled by self-love and service.

Want to Know More?

Watch Shawn's actual Intro for Course-Takers