Awakening tO SelF-SYMMETRY

The Science of UN*Conditional Connection to Self, Others, and Life (SOAL)

Learn The Work of Byron Katie and Shawn's PAIN-TO-PEACE PROCESS that Lets You Love Yourself Happy and Love Life as It Comes. NO MATTER WHAT!

Frustrated in a relationship with someone close to you?

Still experiencing anxiety, overwhelm or loneliness, despite your long spiritual journey?

Fearful that you’re saying or doing the wrong thing, always feeling like you’re on the outside?

And despite your best intentions and a sincere wish to be of service, do you find yourself closing your heart to your spouse, family members, work colleagues or others?

You want to scream, walk out, huddle in the corner when you take things personally and old patterns DO trigger you, despite all your inner work.


Compassionately Undo Blame, Shame, & Defensiveness and Create UN-Conditional Connection to Self, Others, and Life, while not taking anything personally!

Learn The Missing PEACE We Were Never Taught

Come and learn how to turn around your stressful relationship, family, or self-judgement dynamics!

Unity by the Bay invites you to join Shawn Mahshie for an eye-opening 4-week course in Feb-Mar that helps you use stuck patterns to evolve yourself and have lots more fun with your family.
  • Happily transform difficult relationships that have been stuck for years or decades.
  • Get clarity about what works for YOU–creating loving win-win situations for all.
  • Trust your words, actions, and decisions, even in the context of family events.
  • Learn or deepen your practice in The Work of Byron Katie and Shawn’s Happiness Hacks.

JOIN US FOR a HALF-DAY Workshop with Shawn!
Transform Your Ability to Calm Yourself and Communicate Clearly

October 12, 2019 at Arlington Metaphysical Chapel 1:00 PM - 4:30 PM
Join Us and Get a Self-Solidarity Support and Strategy Session with Shawn (a personal breakthrough followup)

In this workshop, Shawn introduces the universal law she has identified, and teach the radically simple but effective tools for accessing your own dependable path to peace and the UNCONDITIONAL connection it reveals. In her open accessible way, Shawn guides you through the hands-on experience of becoming the curious compassionate caretaker of the parts of you that are still under the spell of old programming, often bringing instant and lasting relief from your most stubborn pain points and tenacious survival scripts.

See for yourself the only thought that ever separates you from self, others, and life. Begin the happy journey home to deep inner advocacy–the Self-Solidarity’ Shawn reveals to be the bottom line in all spiritual quests.

If you are just SO ready for some RADICAL RELATIONSHIP RELIEF ... Then I have really HAPPY NEWS:

Whatever or Whoever Upsets, Scares, or Saddens You Absolutely holds the Key to Greater Peace, Freedom, and Happiness–and a Warm Dependable Connection to Yourself and the very Person or Situation that Triggered You (once you know how it works).

Start your path to freedom, forgiveness, and fun!


“Shawn, this is amazing. You’re a gift. You are really good at what you do. You are so perceptive. I can’t even imagine anyone being as helpful as you’ve been. I love that all my family relationships are at peace as I'm headed into the holidays.”

—Carol Kerr, Unity Member

With this MAJOR SHIFT in Paradigm, ‘Problems’ Look and Feel Radically Different. Suddenly relationships feel…

  • Hopeful
  • Solvable
  • Friendlier
  • and MUCH More Fun
man and woman unity

Understanding what I call “The Reliable Symmetry of Happiness” was–for me–the beginning of the end of fear, anger, sadness, and the hell of regret. The reason I call this a Paradigm Shift is because this ‘happy symmetry’ changed my entire relationship to life–in a very short time–and does the same for those in my Groups and Individual work.


Results you Can Expect from this Ground-Breaking Program (even thought it is just an introduction!):

1. Major Shifts in Your Relationship to Relationships and to LIFE itself:

  • Stop Waiting for your situation to change
  • Put Happiness back in your Court
  • Notice a refreshing compassion for yourself and others
  • Act in loving new ways to old familiar triggers
  • Move from Reliable Anger, Anxiety, Heaviness to Reliable Clarity, Joy, Lightness (and FUN)!
  • BE the Relationship of Your Dreams

2. Your own discovery (don’t just believe me!) that:

  • Painful issues are happening FOR you, not just TO you,
  • You don’t need the “terrible awful THEM” to change for you to be happy,
  • You no longer feel clueless about how to handle situations you used to dread.
  • Your shift from upset into peace, curiosity, fearlessness can be instantaneous.

3. A Dependable Peace and Delicious Connection via The 6 Keys:

  • Harvest Hidden Riches from Your Judgments, Annoyances, & Fear
  • Efficiently Shift Regret, Indecision, Needs, & Shoulds to their Happy Flip Side
  • Use Defensiveness, Offensiveness, and Vulnerability as Personalized Teachers of Inner Peace
  • Eradicate fear of intimidation, retaliation,’ seeing the other (and Yourself) clearly
  • Redefine Forgiveness and Amends for True Freedom
  • A WHOLE NEW WORLD: Find that a NO is Equal to (or better than) a YES

What You'll Get

A Full Day with Shawn Mahshie

The Day comprehensive modules that include Shawn’s cutting edge teaching, facilitations in The Work of Byron Katie and Shawn's Wheel of Self-Love on real issues. Includes warm innovative mentoring, role plays, or Q & A about your own process.

Exclusive Private Sessions

Amazing! Everyone who attends even once gets a 30-minute private strategy call with Shawn. And as a special bonus for attending ALL four group meetings, you get a 90-minute Deep Shift private session. Experience the tangible sustainable shift Shawn’s expert coaching and facilitation in The Work create around a difficult issue.

Training in Effective Strategies

Get a Rich Introduction to The Pain-to-Peace Process: 6 Keys to Self-Solidarity, and Shawn’s Happiness Hacks to create major shifts. Get comfortable enough with concepts from The Work of Byron Katie and The Wheel of Self-Love to can begin that you can facilitate yourself and support others.

Online Support

Get access to your a Private FB group where you can get direct support from Shawn beteween Wednesdays for your challenges, celebrations, questions, and shifts! You will also have access to a “4 Wednesdays with Shawn” online hub where you can access the resources she will be presenting during these 4 weeks.

Resources for a Deeper Dive

Get cued up to receive cutting edge articles, videos, and “Happiness Hacks” over time to help you integrate this new way of being with self, life, and others. Let Shawn’s vulnerable sharing and rich hands-on synthesis of other teachings bridge the application-gap in your spiritual journey, as you build your comfort level with The Work and The 6 Keys


Participating will get access to this self-responsible community and valuable discounts to Shawn’s waterfront retreats, Radical Relationship Relief Bootcamp, or Symmetry of Self-Love Mastermind, which increase as you share the word about what you are learning and experiencing throughout our time together and beyond.

When & Where

Your Day with Shawn starts at 10 am and runs through 5 pm with a short lunch break. Shawn will provide healthy snacks

Arlington Metaphysical Chapel

5618 Wilson Boulevard

Arlington, VA 22205

Have questions?

Then we invite you to call Shawn at (301) 785-0545 to decide if this program would work for you!


There is deep integrity, Shawn, in what you share ... It's palpable and permeates your words and actions. Your willingness to be both visible and vulnerable is a continual testimony of your dedication to 'walk your talk.' I also really appreciate your sense of humor that reads as kindness ... such a kind heart ❤ you have. So beautiful is The Work that you share. Thanks so much ... I value your stand and your commitment to truth, beauty and true care for us all ... it's a treasure.
Donna Drozda
Visual Artist, Virgina Beach, Virginia
I'm in. I've drunk the Reliable Symmetry of Happiness kool aid. I want to immerse myself in it, become a skilled practitioner of it in my own mind and life, and pass it on to everyone I reach through Bright Line Eating to address the monkey mind that erupts when the crutch of food is no longer a go-to option.
Susan Peirce Thompson, Ph.D.
Neuroscientist, Professor in the Psychology of Sustained Weight Loss, CEO Bright Line Eating Solutions, Rochester NY
This is soooo awesome! I feel really great right now! Thank you so much for facilitating my paradigm shift!
Author, Coach, and Blog Writer; California
Thank you for doing this group. I think The Work is awesome and its clear that you are masterful with The Work from all the feedback I’ve heard from multiple people now and I think it could benefit everyone, and I don’t say that about many things. I think that The Work is… well it’s phenomenal; it’s absolutely transformative. It doesn’t matter how enlightened you already are, you can go further with The Work. It can produce profound breakthroughs that you might not find any other way. It gets at stuff that we can very effectively avoid in the rest of our lives. The stuff we are conveniently avoiding--The Work will get at it. So Yeah, I highly recommend this. (Recommending another group—not THIS exact one).
Ryan Eliason
Internationally known marketing coach and author, The Social Entrepreneur Empowerment Network, Eugene Oregon
It is said that what we all want above all things are Love and Freedom. I advocate highly for Shawn’s ability to help guide you HOME to both! Her Commitment, Love and Skill, her Patience and Guidance, and especially her Courage are all for YOU and in service to YOUR HEALING. I love her and her work! If you’re ready to roll up your sleeves, and get to it, this is the place and Shawn is the person! I hope to see you at her next event!
Dr. Dale Korangy

I'm Ready to Get My Shift!


Shawn Neal Mahshie’s life work has facilitated critical shifts in perspective for individuals and couples, groups, schools, and even governments addressing stubborn long-term issues.

Her own rich experience emerging happily from severe co-dependence, chronic illness and pain, divorce, and food addiction–largely via her years of training under Byron Katie–means she is knows among her clients for facilitating on a deep and fearless level, with much warmth and compassion.  Quick to make connections and spot her own stories as well as those of her clients, she supports herself and others in:

  • Peace-full Happy Relationships with Self and Others;
  • Flourishing Work/Small Business/Spiritual Life; &
  • Reliably Thriving in the Face of Adversity.

A Trained Facilitator of The Work,  Paradigm Shift Coach, and Published Author/Advocate, Shawn’s latest book, The Reliable Symmetry of Happiness: The ‘Missing Peace’ We Were Never Taught, is forthcoming.  She currently gives workshops, teleseminars, retreats, and works individually with clients from around the world via Phone and Skype (and on the Byron Katie International Helpline)–as well as in-person at Light Landing, her Peaceful Waterfront Retreat on the Chesapeake Bay near Annapolis & Washington, D C.

To read more of Shawn’s story, visit her profile on Byron Katie’s website.

To receive Shawn’s writing and news of programs, or to schedule time to meet with Shawn [FREE] and learn more about The Work or her RADICAL RELATIONSHIP RELIEF Group and Individual Intensives, CLICK HERE.

Shawn Mahshie

Want more information?

Then we invite you to call Shawn at (301) 785-0545 to decide if this program would work for you!