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Now that I discovered a simple, reliable way to stop beating myself up, and turn regret, guilt, and self-doubt into radical self love, power, and prosperity, my decisions became clear and confident.

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"The vivid examples in this short, clear book really brought the Wheel of Self-Love to life for me.  Because the illustrations and Shawn's explanations go deeply into each step, it began to feel like common senses, so I was able to use the steps the very next time I started to beat myself up about a choice. Now I know I don't have to stay stuck"

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Documentary Filmmaker, UK
I’m in. I’ve drunk the ‘Reliable Symmetry of Happiness Kool-Aid’. I want to immerse myself in it, become a skilled practitioner of it in my own mind and life, and pass it on to everyone I reach through ‘Bright Line Eating’ to address the monkey mind that erupts when the crutch of food is no longer a go-to option”.
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"Thank you for doing this.... It’s clear that you are masterful with ‘The Work’ from all the feedback I’ve heard from multiple people now and I think your work could benefit everyone, and I don’t say that about many things. I think ‘The Work’ is … well, it’s phenomenal; it’s absolutely transformative. It doesn’t matter how enlightened you already are, you can go further with ‘The Work’. It can produce profound breakthroughs that you might not find any other way. It gets at stuff that we can very effectively avoid in the rest of our lives. The stuff we are conveniently avoiding—’The Work’ will get at it. So Yeah, I highly recommend that folks sign on with you”.
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"There is deep integrity, Shawn, in what you share … . It’s palpable and permeates your words and actions. Your willingness to be both visible and vulnerable is a continual testimony of your dedication to ‘walk your talk’. I also really appreciate your sense of humor that reads as kindness … such a kind heart ❤ you have. So beautiful is ‘The Work’ that you share. Thanks so much … I value your stand and your commitment to truth, beauty and true care for us all … . It’s a treasure”.
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"It is said that what we all want above all things are love and freedom. I advocate highly for Shawn’s ability to help guide you HOME to both! Her commitment, love and skill, her patience and guidance, and especially her courage are all for YOU and in service to YOUR HEALING. I love her and her work! If you’re ready to roll up your sleeves, and get to it, this is the place and Shawn is the person! I hope to see you at her next event!”
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My Name is Shawn Mahshie

15 years ago, my life crashed.

I was a successful author, speaker, and managing editor at a well-known university. I was married with a child and a beautiful waterfront house. Things looked good on the outside, but on the inside, I was not truly happy.

I was caught in anxiety, self-doubt, and debilitating co-dependence in my marriage and work.

I was having a big impact in my field on a national and global level, but I wasn’t thriving in my mind and heart, which made peace, good health and deep connections to others almost impossible.

First I lost my health, and then as a consequence, my successful career, international speaking engagements, and my 3rd book deal, a high-impact book that was close to being published.

Within 9 months my marriage had also ended – which became the catalyst for a major shift in my life.

After years of seeking physical, emotional, and spiritual cures, I finally saw that a simple way of questioning my thinking, rooted in The Work of Byron Katie, began a shift inside me that changed me forever.

I discovered a ‘thing’ that I could depend on like nothing before in my life. I started calling that internal paradigm “The Reliable Symmetry of Happiness” as it had brought me the ability to USE whatever was scaring, upsetting, or angering me to bring me to a dependable peace and happiness.

After training at the ‘graduate level’ in my heart, mind, and body, I spent 20 years researching and developing a wellness of mind  community that would help people change their habits and live the healthy, free, loving lives that are our birth right. Even after spending 6 years becoming certified in The Work and 8 years serving clients, I had not completely overcome my habit of beating myself up, until developing the 3 simple steps in the Wheel of Self Love™ that eliminated regret and guilt from my life and led me to the state I call Self Solidarity™.

Now, I teach you – the enlightened seeker, entrepreneur, or just human in pain – to thrive and grow this radical and unshakeable kind of self-love, through which you will experience unconditional prosperity in your relationships and life.

Now knowing that others – in fact, the whole world – should not wait so long to get this missing PEACE, I embarked on a mission to show people just how quickly and radically their lives could change. I had met many people who had been on long spiritual journeys, who had not arrived at this place where they could thrive in their minds and relationships and succeed at whatever they tried without self-sabotage. I am thrilled to have the tools to help us all release fear, blame and competition in time to save our planet together.

It’s completely possible to free yourself from the areas where you still struggle to grow a life and relationships that thrive–no matter what. I’m passionate about growing a dependable sense of peace until it becomes common knowledge for us all – to thrive, to grow warm connection to self, others, and life — using the VERY THINGS THAT UPSET US.

I’d like to show you how to lastingly turn around your most painful perceptions to attract all you want and need into your life now. Let’s get started building your dependable peace and delightful connections together!

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