The Self-Evolution Divorce:
A Support & Solution Group


Feeling a little UPSIDE DOWN and BACKWARDS as your marriage comes to an end?

Once you know how to USE the very things that trigger you most to evolve yourself to a happier, more peaceful, more connected way of being with yourself, others, and life, all the HUGE challenges you are currently facing--even going through the court and custody stuff--will create a welcome course correction and the warm, safe, fun connection you've been craving.

I’m excited to announce that I am starting a new group that will be meeting every Monday night for those going through a divorce or the break-up of any committed relationship where your lives have become intertwined.

Working with people who are transitioning out of their marriages and into new lives is one of my favorite things. The transformation and course correction in their relationship to themselves, others, and life (SOAL) that comes out of this Love Yourself Happy work makes it possible to not only have a surprisingly drama-free divorce, but to use whatever drama does come up (or has been the root cause of the marriage dissolution) to move efficiently into a healing and whole place.

Turn Your Biggest Challenges into Your Biggest Breakthroughs!

In other words, once you know how to turn your biggest challenges into your biggest breakthroughs, you can harvest every painful or confusing or frustrating or lonely or scary aspect of your divorce as a personalized doorway to inner peace, letting you evolve yourself to living in warm connection with life.
I have a number of folks in various stages of divorce now, and they are getting so much out of this work that the ones who have been part of my retreats, groups, or private work have STRONGLY ENCOURAGED me to start a group just for them and for any of you out there who are nearing the end of your marriage, drowning in the actual divorce process, or struggling with building a new life (even if you are years out of your divorce but not truly past it and on your feet).


Turn Your Inner Critic into the Champion of Your Happiness

Together, those in the group and I will also be helping you through the ups and downs of divorce in a way that there is no such thing as 'doing it wrong.' You will learn what to do with self-doubt, guilt, regret, and indecision, shifting yourself in 'REAL TIME' as we work though all the pieces together, including:
  • EVOLVING via the practical aspects of navigating the court system,
  • SECURING just the right housing and building a life you love,
  • CREATING unconditional prosperity and day-to-day livelihood,
  • THRIVING via changed relationships with children, extended family, workplace, and ‘couple friends,’ and
  • HAPPILY BUILDING a new life, surrounding yourself with a community of compassion, support, love, and laughter.

A New Way of Being in the World

BOTTOM LINE--You will grow here into a sweet state of clarity, belongingness, and NO MATTER WHAT self-support and advocacy. I call it Self-SOLIDARITY and it will give you the very thing you were seeking... for the rest of your life, no matter what relationships come and go.

This shift of a lifetime is what has made these last 10 years of my life so happy, healthy, free, and full of contribution....arriving at a level of safety and self-aligned action I never thought possible until I learned to keep my own counsel.

I would be honored to have the opportunity to show you how to get there efficiently, rather than going through decades of chronic illness and a major crash in every aspect of your life, as I did before I knew this simple SELF-EVOLUTION SOLUTION I'll be sharing.

“Shawn, this is amazing. You’re a gift. You are really good at what you do. You are so perceptive. I can’t even imagine anyone being as helpful as you’ve been. I love that all my family relationships are at peace as I'm headed into the holidays.”

— Carol Kerr, Unity Member, December 2017



There is deep integrity, Shawn, in what you share .... It's palpable and permeates your words and actions. Your willingness to be both visible and vulnerable is a continual testimony of your dedication to 'walk your talk.' I also really appreciate your sense of humor that reads as kindness ... such a kind heart you have. So beautiful is The Work that you share. Thanks so much ... I value your stand and your commitment to truth, beauty and true care for us all ... it's a treasure.
Donna Drozda​
Visual Artist, Virgina Beach, Virginia
Thank you for doing this group. I think The Work is awesome and its clear that you are masterful with The Work from all the feedback I’ve heard from multiple people now and I think it could benefit everyone, and I don’t say that about many things. I think that The Work is… well it’s phenomenal; it’s absolutely transformative. It doesn’t matter how enlightened you already are, you can go further with The Work. It can produce profound breakthroughs that you might not find any other way. It gets at stuff that we can very effectively avoid in the rest of our lives. The stuff we are conveniently avoiding--The Work will get at it. So yeah, I highly recommend this. (Recommending another group—not THIS exact one).
Ryan Eliason
Internationally known marketing coach and author, The Social Entrepreneur Empowerment Network, Eugene Oregon
I'm in. I've drunk the Reliable Symmetry of Happiness kool aid. I want to immerse myself in it, become a skilled practitioner of it in my own mind and life, and pass it on to everyone I reach through Bright Line Eating to address the monkey mind that erupts when the crutch of food is no longer a go-to option.
Susan Peirce Thompson, Ph.D.
Neuroscientist, Professor in the Psychology of Sustained Weight Loss, CEO Bright Line Eating Solutions, Rochester NY
This is soooo awesome! I feel really great right now! Thank you so much for facilitating my paradigm shift!
Author, Coach, and Blog Writer; California
It is said that what we all want above all things are Love and Freedom. I advocate highly for Shawn’s ability to help guide you HOME to both! Her Commitment, Love and Skill, her Patience and Guidance, and especially her Courage are all for YOU and in service to YOUR HEALING. I love her and her work! If you’re ready to roll up your sleeves, and get to it, this is the place and Shawn is the person! I hope to see you at her next event!
Dr. Dale Korangy


Trained Facilitator of The Work,  Paradigm Shift Coach, and Published Author/Advocate

Shawn Neal Mahshie’s life work has facilitated critical shifts in perspective for individuals and couples, groups, schools, and even governments addressing stubborn long-term issues.

Her own rich experience emerging happily from severe co-dependence, chronic illness and pain, divorce, and food addiction–largely via her years of training under Byron Katie–means she is known among her clients for facilitating on a deep and fearless level, with much warmth and compassion.  Quick to make connections and spot her own stories as well as those of her clients, she supports herself and others in:

  • Peace-full Happy Relationships with Self and Others;
  • Flourishing Work/Small Business/Spiritual Life; &
  • Reliably Thriving in the Face of Adversity.

A Trained Facilitator of The Work,  Paradigm Shift Coach, and Published Author/Advocate, Shawn’s latest book, The Reliable Symmetry of Happiness: The ‘Missing Peace’ We Were Never Taught, is forthcoming.  She currently gives workshops, teleseminars, retreats, and works individually with clients from around the world via Phone and Skype (and on the Byron Katie International Helpline)–as well as in-person at Light Landing, her Peaceful Waterfront Retreat on the Chesapeake Bay near Annapolis & Washington, D C.

To read more of Shawn’s story, visit her profile on Byron Katie’s website.

To receive Shawn’s writing and news of programs, or to schedule time to meet with Shawn [FREE] and learn more about The Work or her RADICAL RELATIONSHIP RELIEF Group and Individual Intensives, CLICK HERE.



Have Questions?

Contact Pamela (Shawn’s Assistant) at: support@shawnmahshie.com