Put the Oxygen Mask on Yourself FIRST: My Deep Abandonment JYN

Since Family Issues can get triggered this time of year (or any time and with anyone!), I decided to share this deep process I undertook around a text message!   “I’m SO ABSOLUTELY grateful for each one of you. XOXOXOXOXOOXxxxooooxx. And the fact that I am grateful means my commitment to you is the same … Read more Put the Oxygen Mask on Yourself FIRST: My Deep Abandonment JYN

CEASE FIRE: Our Great Spiritual Privilege (But My Upsets Are My Husband’s/Co-Worker’s/The President’s/The Other Driver’s… Fault!) [Landmines, PART II]

CLICK HERE TO READ or LISTEN to “DEFUSING YOUR LANDMINES, PART ONE” CLICK AUDIO LINK ABOVE TO LISTEN TO “LANDMINES PART TWO” (THIS BLOG!) CONTINUED FROM PART I:   Wouldn’t you do all you could to prevent an accidental explosion if you had discovered the hidden location of a land mine? If you had a sure-fire … Read more CEASE FIRE: Our Great Spiritual Privilege (But My Upsets Are My Husband’s/Co-Worker’s/The President’s/The Other Driver’s… Fault!) [Landmines, PART II]

Defusing Your Landmines-PART I

Photo Credit (‘Danger Mines’ Watch where you step. Taken on the road to Stanley on East Falkland. by Stefan1981 on FLICKR.) UPDATED 9-9-2018 [AUDIO INCLUDED] The Minefield. We know the comparison well. Sometimes relationships seem like minefields. But what is new here is that the defusing of these hidden bombs is not a hopeless quest. … Read more Defusing Your Landmines-PART I

LET IT SNOW…What do snow and Radical Relationship Relief have in Common?

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It’s OK to trust your process. JUST as it shows up. It’s like snow. It just happens. Even if Your Weren’t at Unity last Thursday (or were there but haven’t thought about it since last week!)….it’s OK. You’re Shifting Anyway. Come as you are with questions, celebrations, issues, or ah-ha’s…. We are going to have … Read more LET IT SNOW…What do snow and Radical Relationship Relief have in Common?

Good Luck? What About When ‘Bad’ is the Best Thing Ever

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Be Careful What You Wish For (Is there such a thing as a bad outcome?) Ever since I started living from the paradigm I call “the Reliable Symmetry of Happiness,” I’m not so sure what to wish for any more. While I used to say (warmly but unthinkingly) to friends “Hope all is well,” or … Read more Good Luck? What About When ‘Bad’ is the Best Thing Ever