Self-Solidarity Surrogate: What Goes Around Comes Around

As my ability to hold myself grows, so does my ability to hold YOU unconditionally! A client’s words about this amazing grace. It’s Beyond my Wildest Dreams This Valentine’s Day, I celebrate–via this note from a client–the phenomenal love, trust, and gratitude that ‘go around and come around’ between the ME that Is reflected in … Read more Self-Solidarity Surrogate: What Goes Around Comes Around

Love your Dreams (and Love What Actually Happens)! [End the War with Time] PART II

What would “not enough” really mean when it comes to what gets accomplished?  Where is the line between enough and not enough, and who is the decider anyway?  If you think it’s YOU, you’re going to be hurting, because there are so many variables at play besides what your monkey-mind decides is important and meets … Read more Love your Dreams (and Love What Actually Happens)! [End the War with Time] PART II

How to ALWAYS Accomplish Just Enough [End the War with Time]

 It is truly a human affliction to believe meaningless concepts like “should” and “should have.” Even a bird named Kevin knows that nothing can happen other than what is happening in any given moment. He–I mean, ‘She’–(learn about Kevin’s gender dilemma in Part II) does not engage in regret. At least I don’t think so. The … Read more How to ALWAYS Accomplish Just Enough [End the War with Time]

Thanksgiving is When a Blowout doesn’t Blow Out Your Happiness

I’m celebrating having a tire blow out just before I reached the shoulder of the 8-lane  highway I was on yesterday, and the day-long sequence of unplanned events that followed. A Day Full of Lemons and Lemonade It is 6:48 pm, and I am sitting at a curb waiting for the light to change, ‘homeless’ … Read more Thanksgiving is When a Blowout doesn’t Blow Out Your Happiness

Forgiveness: Always An Inside Job [Part II of Actual Coaching Dialogue on ‘Clutter and Forgiveness’]

Hi Shawn, No, I was up LATE!!  That’s just another bad pattern I’ve gotten myself into — having too much left to do at the end of the day (okay, I see myself buying into another belief that something is “bad” there…) Thank you so much for all the LOVE and WISDOM…. It helps to … Read more Forgiveness: Always An Inside Job [Part II of Actual Coaching Dialogue on ‘Clutter and Forgiveness’]

What Does Chronic Clutter have to do with Forgiveness? [Part 1 of an actual coaching dialogue]

As we go deeper into forgiveness via this totally reliable second look at who or what our minds told us was ‘wrong’ –the bottom line is that we arrive at who we really are:  that which has the power to understand and forgive and even love the part of us (and others) that was simply … Read more What Does Chronic Clutter have to do with Forgiveness? [Part 1 of an actual coaching dialogue]

How Forgiving Myself for Yesterdays “BAD TYPOS” Really Worked

“Now, I can think back on those typos with NO emotional charge.  Kind of like remembering a bad dream and realizing that it was never serious to start with.” It was so ‘serendipitous’ that, after spending lots of time preparing my post on forgiveness yesterday, I could NOT forgive myself when I saw that some … Read more How Forgiving Myself for Yesterdays “BAD TYPOS” Really Worked

My husband shouldn’t tell me what to do (Part 2 of 2 on Defensiveness: A Peer Facilitation MP3)

Defensiveness as a Genius Wake-Up Call (Audio Reveals How WE Are the Ones) Ever felt defensive when a loved one tells you what  to do? Listen in on what happens when you USE your need to defend to show yourself where it’s all ‘an inside job.’  The issue Kristine is working on in our Radical … Read more My husband shouldn’t tell me what to do (Part 2 of 2 on Defensiveness: A Peer Facilitation MP3)